Is My Tween Being Bullied?

Written by: Amanda Elias, M.A., Child Development Specialist

Signs that my child may being bullied:

• Withdrawing from favorite activities

• Decreased interest in school and school related activities

• Decreased time spent with usual social group

• Changes in appetite (may increase or decrease)

• Starting to consistently miss the bus or delay morning routine

• Show signs of anger or heightened emotions

• Physical signs such as bruises or scrapes

What can I do?

• Talk to your child and encourage them to stay away from the bully

• Assure your child that it is not their fault

• Role play words to use when they are faced with uncomfortable situations

• Inform them of the adults he or she can go to for help and practice phrases to use without sounding like tattling

• Assure them it is important for their safety and the safety of others to STEP UP AND SPEAK OUT!

Where can I turn for help?

• If you want to facilitate your tween’s ability to develop effective communication, coping, and problem solving skills, reserve a seat for them in the supportive youth group starting on March 17th for children 10-12. Space is limited so contact Amanda Elias, MA immediately if you are interested.